This was an actual conversation I had with a woman when we were talking about gender bias and sexual identity .
Woman : I hate how everyone puts labels on sexuality. There should not be a label on who you love.
Me: I don’t think terms like Gay, lesbian, bi, hetero are a bad thing. It is not like you are being labelled a pariah of some sort.
Woman: Well I do not think I should have to label my sexual preferences. Truth is I am Bi but I do not think I should be classified as such!
Me: Ok Hey that’s great, so you have sexual attraction with both men and women. Not my place to judge but people are not like that in general.. they need to associate a term with something to give it a context of sorts. I am not going to argue honestly if you want to have sex with a woman.. heck i actually encourage it! (laugh)
Woman: You are being a pig (small laugh) I have never had sex with a woman.
Me: Wait… you have not had sex with a woman, but you claim to be BI? So.. you are Bi curious and never acted upon it?
Woman: No.. I am not sexually attracted to women, I just find them beautiful and sensual.
Me: Ok I think you are missing the whole concept of being Bi. What do you think BI is??
Woman: Well you know… like cuddling and maybe kissing and stuff!
Me: *blink**blink* (walks away)
Woman: (saying loudly) Fuck you pig, all you care about is seeing two women fuck!
Me: Why couldn’t your mother have swallowed!?